Wednesday, March 18, 2009
The Virtue of Kindness
I've only got 12 days till I leave for Hungary! I should get my flight plans tomorrow or Friday! So that is pretty exciting! It has kind of been an average week other than that. The Hungarian language is coming slowly but surely.
One exciting thing is that I finally got a hold of Terry again! (Terry is the woman I met through the Referral Center shortly after I came to the MTC. I've been teaching her by phone.) I don't know what the issues were the last few weeks, but she is still more than interested in the Gospel! Her husband is giving her a hard time though. I don't think that he's a bad guy or anything, but he sure isn't being as nice as he could be. So I invited her to be baptized and she agreed! I'm so excited for her! She has prayed a ton and knows for herself that what I have taught her is true. The Lord has blessed her life so much and I know that if she continues to follow His commandments that she will be blessed more and more. I went through all of the baptismal questions too and she agreed with everything! It is so crazy. I'm a terrible teacher, but the Lord has prepared her and she has worked hard to know for herself that the gospel is true. I haven't really done anything. It's just the Lord working miracles like usual! Unfortunately, the missionaries in her area STILL haven't contacted her. If they don't shape up within a few days I'm just going to have my teacher call the branch president in her area and have him go over to her house himself. And I'm going to try and teach her husband as well. I think that he might feel alienated or something and that is not good. I'm going to try and talk to him and help him come closer to Christ.
I've been focusing on trying to be more kind and loving and not judgmental this week. I read a really cool talk by Elder Joseph Wirthlin that he gave at a general conference called The Virtue of Kindness. At the end he said something pretty cool. He said something like: But what if someone is rude? Love them. What if they are obnoxious? Love them. But what if they are annoying or mean? Love them. He said something like that, but better. We need to learn how to love others no matter what weaknesses they may have because we are full of weaknesses too. As I have tried to become more kind and think nicer thoughts about people I've been much happier. Focusing on other people's strengths and not their weaknesses is what Jesus Christ did and is definitely the way to go.
I'm pretty sure now that one of the reasons the Lord put me in a 12 week (at the MTC) mission was to humble me a little before I go out and teach His children. I sure needed it! Haha.
Going on a mission is the best decision that I've made in my life so far. It seems like I'm sacrificing a lot of money and time, but it is so worth it. The experiences that are helping me change my character and become more Christ-like are worth all the time and money in the world. I hope it doesn't sound like I'm some super perfect person now. Haha. Because I am sooooo far from that. I'm just improving slowly and it is exciting for me.
Thank you for all of your love and support! I love you all very much! Next week I'll tell you all about my flight plans. That'll be exciting. For me at least!
Sok szerettel,
Anderson Elder
Wednesday, March 11, 2009
19 Days to Go
Nothing real crazy happened this week. Our building had to be renovated so we got to move to another building that had just gotten fixed and the showers are sooo much better!!! It's great. Haha.
Teaching in Hungarian isn't scary at all anymore, it's just difficult. I can usually say a simplified version of what I'd say in English, just really slow. I can't wait to see all of the "I have no idea what you are saying" looks that I'm going to get in Hungary for the first few months! It'll be hilarious! That's why I'll have a more experienced missionary with me to help me out when I start to confuse someone too much.
This is sooo exciting! I leave in 19 days and I should get my flight plans sometime next week! Probably around Thursday or Friday. I can't wait to go!
So I'm really sorry about writing letters. My stack of letters that I need to reply to keeps on getting bigger! I write super slow by hand.
Everyday my faith is strengthened a little more and I am seeing my prayers answered. It really is amazing to actually know that there is a God and to notice the experiences that He gives that helps me realize that He really is there.
So about the nice lady that I've been teaching in the Referral Center. It has taken a bad turn. She was super excited every time that I called and she said that she had felt the Spirit of God and that she knew what I was teaching was true because of that witness that she received. She was really happy and was excited to learn more. But her husband isn't quite as excited. I'm pretty sure he really doesn't like me for some reason. Now when I call he says that she's not there and hangs up on me and one time I swear that she answered the phone, and in a quite awkward voice said that she wasn't home. It is SO NOT FAIR! Earlier she had given me her cell phone number so that she could talk to me in private, but now I can't get a hold of her. She was so happy, but now something has gone wrong and she can't talk to me anymore. ARG! If her husband would let her make her own decisions I'm sure none of this would have happened. Huh... Oh well. I know that the Lord is looking out for her and will continue to bless her life. There isn't much I can do now.
Other than that everything is going great. After that experience I was confused and I didn't know what to do so I was going to call some of the other people that I had talked to previously, but it didn't feel quite right. So after a while I decided to just follow up on people who had ordered something from our church, but I got nothing except for answering machines. Then in the last 5 minutes that I had before lunch started I finally got a hold of someone who was interested in learning more and wanted me to call her back tomorrow! The Lord planned it PERFECTLY! I had just 5 minutes left and nothing had been going right, but then the very last call that I had time for was the one He wanted me to take. It was great. The Lord really does watch out for us. You just have to look and realize that it was Him and not just a coincidence.
If anyone wants to learn more about what I'm doing or about the Book of Mormon or if you want to learn more about Jesus Christ and our Heavenly Father email me or just go to http://www.mormon.org. That's a really cool website that has a ton of good information. Just take 5 minutes and check it out. I promise that you won't regret it!
I know that God lives and that He has restored the church that His Son Jesus Christ set up on the earth during His ministry in Jerusalem. I know that the Book of Mormon is the word of God along with the Holy Bible. I know these things because I have studied them and prayed hard about them and God actually answered my prayers. I have felt powerful feelings of peace and love while reading the Book of Mormon and praying about Joseph Smith and that can only come from God.
I love you all very much!
~Anderson Elder
Wednesday, March 4, 2009
Humility
Hey! Another week has flown by. First I want to thank everybody for all of the letters that I have received, I really appreciate them! But at the same time I need to apologize because I don't have very much time on Wednesday to write back, so it might take a while for me to write back, if at all. Sorry!
So my goal of only speaking Hungarian this week fell through, but I have spoken a lot more than usual, which is still great. I'm going to keep on trying and at least one week here I am only going to speak Hungarian. I need the practice.
Oh, Elder Yoshihiko Kikuchi of the Quorum of the Seventy spoke to us yesterday at the devotional. It was really cool. He is such a humble man. At the end he told his conversion story in Japan and you could really feel the love that he had for us. His father was killed in World War II by an American submarine while he was on a commercial fishing boat and because of that his family fell into deep poverty. He hated Americans for that. But a few years later two American missionaries from our Church told him about the Restoration of the Gospel of Jesus Christ and he knew in his heart that what they were teaching was true. And so now he can stand in front of a crowd of mostly Americans and tell us that he loved us and it didn't matter so much as what he said, but what we felt. We knew that he was sincere. All that hate that he had is gone and has been replaced with Christ-like love. I hope that I can achieve that level of humility and love someday. It is a testament to me that the Gospel of Jesus Christ changes lives and improves lives and brings true, lasting happiness into the lives of those who earnestly follow His commandments.
In an effort to become more humble and kind and loving I have been studying 1 Nephi in the Book of Mormon. Nephi is such a great example to us of how to become humble and loving. His brothers hated him many times and made his life very difficult, but Nephi didn't allow their hatred to bring him down. He truly loved them and cared for them and wanted them to choose the right and be happy. He didn't get angry at them or belittle them, he tried his best to be a good example and to lift them up and help them to follow Jesus Christ's teachings. He just wanted them to be happy. Many times when it would have been so easy to get angry at his brothers, Laman and Lemuel, when it would have been so easy to give up on them and give them "a taste of their own medicine" Nephi chose to follow the perfect example of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ and he was "grieved" in his heart because of their wickedness and tried to help his brothers with love and kindness and not with an attitude that he was better than them.
If we follow Nephi's example and, more importantly, Jesus Christ's example in our lives I know that we will be blessed. Being with my companion 24/7 has proven this to me. During the first few weeks we argued a lot over a lot of things, important and not important, and it was not fun at all. After I finally stopped being contentious and was more loving and kind to my companion things got way better. I am still trying, and will always be trying, to improve. Trying to get rid of the attitude that I am right and others are wrong is the best thing that I have done!
I love you all! Thanks for your love and support! I have to go now! Sziasztok!
~Anderson Elder
Wednesday, February 25, 2009
42 napok!
This week was pretty good. I didn't speak only Hungarian the whole week, though. So next week I'm going all out and I'm not going to speak a single word of English!!! It's going to be crazy. I'll let you know how it's going next Wednesday.
So one night I got a little epiphany and came up with this. You should definitely check out the scriptures because they are really good.
- We know that God exists (Alma 22:8 BoM)
- We know that He is all-knowing, merciful, and loving (Alma 26:35 BoM, James 3:17 Bible, 2 Nephi 1:15 BoM)
- We know that because He is all-knowing, He knows what is best for us and when (Matthew 6:8 Bible).
- Because He is merciful and loving He will help us in ways and in times that are most beneficial to us if we have faith in Him (3 Nephi 14:11 BoM, D&C 90:24, Romans 8:28 Bible)
- Therefore when we go through hard times we don't need to fear or worry or be angry at God because we know that if we believe in Him and follow His commandments He will be beside us every step of the way, helping us, comforting us, and strengthening our weaknesses (Isaiah 41:10 Bible, Isaiah 43:2 Bible). Of course we won't always understand why he allows some difficult trials in our lives to weigh us down (D&C 58:2-4). But it's ok because He does know (Proverbs 3:5-6 Bible, Isaiah 55:8-9 Bible). And if we follow His commandments and His Son Jesus Christ He will lift us up and bless us. He may not take the trial away, but He will comfort us and it will be for our good. We will all experience frequent difficult times but it's ok because God will help us through them all so that we can all enjoy life and be happy.
So if we have faith that God is our Father in Heaven (Acts 17:28-29 Bible, Hebrews 12:9 Bible) and that He can do anything (Alma 26:35 BoM, Jeremiah 32:17 Bible) and if we have faith that His Son Jesus Christ is our Savior and Redeemer and follow Christ's example (John 13:15 Bible, 3 Nephi 27:21 BoM, John 10:27 Bible) and God's commandments (John 14:12, 21 & 23 Bible) we will be able to get through every trail and hardship with optimistic attitudes and hearts full of joy, peace, hope, and love (1 John 4:18 Bible, 2 Nephi 31:20 BoM, Mosiah 2:41 BoM, Alma 31:31 BoM).
That was my thought one night, well actually two nights. It was pretty cool. Please check out those scriptures. They are way better than my bad English.
So we taught in Hungarian last Thursday and it was actually really cool!! It took forever to conjugate words and I'm positive that I sounded like a 4 year old, but the returned missionaries could understand what I was saying! At least the basic idea. Haha! It was really cool.
I have discovered the awesomeness of scripture study! I love studying the scriptures. If you approach it with the right attitude then it’s great! I have about 5 pages of notes just for the first 6 chapters of the Book of Mormon. Cool, no?
Well I've got to go! Sziasztok!
~Anderson Elder
Wednesday, February 18, 2009
35 Days Down
This might be a short blog today, we'll see. This week has been pretty crazy—well as crazy as one can get in the MTC. For the past week or so I have had a cough, but not much else and then Sunday morning it went crazy on me and I had this cold/flu thingy. I felt terrible. So Recksiek Elder, my companion, gave me a blessing and the next day I got some medication and I felt almost completely normal that day! It was fantastic! After we do all we can do the Lord will make up for what you can't and BAM—I'm not sick at all now! Medicine alone can't do that. I love the Lord, and I know that He loves me too. And if He loves me then He definitely loves you all too!
So on Monday morning the Hungarian group ahead of us left for Magyarország (Hungary)!! It's so not fair! Haha. The more that I hear awesome, crazy stories from missionaries and our teachers about Hungary the more I want to go. I might just stuff myself in a package and mail myself there. Totally worth it. For instance, one of our teachers showed us an email from a missionary who is in Hungary right now and one of his funny stories for that week was that an older lady shouted, in Hungarian, out of her window to this missionary and his comp, "I have NO idea what you are saying!" Then she threw an orange at them! HAHAHA! Apparently their Hungarian isn't that great yet! I can't wait for random stories like that to happen to me. And of course to actually teach people about the Restored Gospel of Jesus Christ! I just need to be patient.
This whole week we are supposed to only speak Hungarian. We've done pretty well. I'm sure we would sound like two year olds to Hungarians, but we can get our basic thoughts out. Sometimes it just gets so frustrating that we have to speak in English. But it's crazy that we can speak so much after just a few weeks. The Lord will help anyone who asks in faith and if it is His will.
The scary part of this week is that tomorrow we have to teach for a little over an hour ONLY IN HUNGARIAN! NO ENGLISH! Crazy. I don't have enough vocab memorized yet, so that will be a HUGE challenge! It'll work out.
Going on a mission improves your character SO MUCH it's almost insane. I can already notice that I'm becoming a little more humble and loving. Being stuck with someone 24/7 who can easily frustrate you really brings out your weaknesses. I can't have that "I'm always right" attitude, even if I am right, I can't always press my opinion because my comp and I would tear each other apart! This is forcing me to change and become more humble and kind and able to see situations from other people's points of view. Going on a mission is the quickest and best way to improve your character and become a better person. I have a LOOOONG LONG way to go, but I can see already that I'm improving. It's pretty cool! Well I'm just about out of time. Thanks for everything! I love you all! Sziasztok!
Anderson Elder
Wednesday, February 11, 2009
A Missionary Experience
I'm doing great! Last week's blog entry was pretty lame. I hope that my brain will work this time. So last week I got a package from Chris Huff and that was super exciting! He sent my comp. and I a pair of chopsticks each and some really tasty Japanese candy! It was great. Since everything is the same and kind of boring here I decided to use those chopsticks a lot. It was really weird, but fun! I bet it looked even more weird. A Hungarian eating lasagna with Japanese chopsticks. Haha
I love the RC! The Referral Center is the place where we get to talk to people who call about ads for free Bibles, free copies of The Book of Mormon or free videos about Jesus Christ or have questions about anything. I called this one lady to make sure that she had recieved the Bible that she had ordered and we talked for about 30 min! It was great! I taught her all about prophets, the apostasy, the restoration of Jesus Christ's church, the Book of Mormon, the Holy Ghost, Jesus Christ's atonement, and eternal families! And about how God and Jesus Christ love each and everyone of us and will help us if we ask in faith and follow their commandments. She said that she was feeling really depressed before I called, but that I really helped her out. The Spirit was so strong it was awesome! I shared Galations 8:22 or 5:22, I can't remember exactly which one, and told her that that was what the Spirit of God feels like and she said that she was feeling His love for her. I also shared with her James 1:5 and Moroni 10:4-5 and told her that she needed to pray to God to know for herself if what I was telling her was true and she said that she would! It was so great! I actually felt like a missionary then! Helping people come to know and follow Jesus Christ is the best thing ever.
I can't believe that I've been here for 28 days already! It feels like I've been here forever, but it's going really fast at the same time. The Hungarians ahead of us are leaving on MONDAY!! It's so not fair! I wanna go right now!haha And when they leave we'll get a brand new group. That'll be exciting.
So next week we have to start teaching our lessons COMPLETELY IN HUNGARIAN! It's going to be insane. The Lord will continue to help me though. I'm sure of that. Hungarian is so crazy. Imadkozhatunk? (there is an accent above the a and an umlaut above the u) means: May we pray? Literally, imadkoz - to pray, hat - may, unk - conjugation for we. They think backwards compared to english. But it's making more sense every day.
Well I better get going now. Thanks for everything! Szeretlek titeket! I love you all!
Anderson Elder
Wednesday, February 4, 2009
My Mind is Blank
For the record, my ear is fine! (I hurt an old high school wrestling injury while wrestling with some other missionaries during my first week at the MTC.) Apparently everyone on the face of the earth back home thinks that my ear is going to explode or something! (Haha!) So for anyone who's going on a mission, here's the lesson I learned: remember the rules and follow them. Even if you don't know that you're breakin the rules and you do, bad things will happen. Seriously.
My mind is completely blank. I can't remember anything I did this week. The Hungarian language is crazy! That's probably while I can't remember anything. Hungarian isn't as bad as some people think, though. You just have to work at it.
My zone leaders are so amazing! And crazy. We have a ton of fun with them. One of them is from Gig Harbor, WA. Cool, eh? (Haha!) One of the Elders in our district, Musters Elder, is from Canada. He's really funny too.
Oh boy, I'm still blank so I'm going to give up writing and go study.
I know that Jesus Christ lives and cares about us! Goodbye everybody! See ya next week, hopefully I'll remember more and have more to write. Szervusz!
Anderson Elder